Many of you have supported my Father’s journey as he’s been fighting Prostate cancer. You have no idea how much your well wishes, thoughts, prayers, and support means to my Dad.
You see my Dad is the most social person I have ever met. His smile lights up a room, and he loves to meet new people. In fact where ever we go, most often than not he runs into someone he knows. This happens in the most obscure and remote areas. I can only assume it is his mission to talk to every human he comes into contact with.
His heart is so generous. He would give you the shirt off his back, and he would even buy you an extra one. The very thing that drives him forward in life is to help others with words of kindness, gestures big and small, and the gift of his accepting heart.
He makes me proud of him daily. My heart also breaks for him daily as he struggles with his health.
Cancer has taken little pieces away from my Dad that are a part of who he is as a man. It has invaded parts of his pride, dignity, joy, energy, and health. However,
cancer has not succeeded in taking away any part of his Faith nor his Hope. If anything, it has allowed his Faith and Hope to grow and by sharing his story, he has supported and uplifted others who share and understand this fight.
Here’s the thing, talk ing about
cancer is uncomfortable. It’s ugly. But how can we not talk about it? I don’t know many people who aren’t touched by cancer in some way. But what if we didn’t talk about it? What if we kept all talk of cancer behind closed doors because it’s too personal to talk about? How will we ever hope to find a cure if we don’t do something? How would we raise awareness?
But I have to share something that
cancer has given us as a family. This ugly disease has brought our family closer. It’s taught us to appreciate the gift of health, because it is indeed a gift. It’s taught us to value life, cherish those we love, tell our loved ones how much they mean to us, laugh a little more, and complain a lot less. And don’t sweat the small stuff!
I know I’ve shared photos of my Dad before, but here’s a little video featuring my soft-hearted Dad.
On June 15th, 2012 I will once again be joining Team Hope in the Leduc Relay for Life as a way to fight back.
From 7:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m. we will be walking the track in honour of my Dad, in memory of my Aunt Lorraine and my friend Chris, and in honour/memory of my team mate’s loved ones. If you would like to join the fight by making a donation, please click:
All donations big and small make a difference! The Canadian Cancer Society advance in their research towards finding a cure each year with the help of your donations. You can make a difference. No one can take away our hope. Let’s join together to fight this fight. If we don’t come together to make a difference, who will?
I will leave you with a photo of my Dad taken on Easter Sunday. Awww, he’s so cute.
From my Dad’s heart to yours,