At a very early age, it was in my nature to question everything. At times it was fuelled by self-doubt, but mainly to get to the root of Why.
To give purpose to.
I’ve always sought the purpose for my life. There HAS to be more to this life than work, eat, sleep, repeat.
I will spin it back to one word: Love.
To explore passions and empower/encourage others to do the same.
I do not choose a mediocre life. Now, the word “mediocre” can mean something completely different to me as it does to you. Perhaps a more accurate statement is that I choose to be conscious and intentional with my time, energy, and words. I want my words to match my actions: which is integrity. I seek Quality living which is not found within titles or things or status.
As a child, I recognized I had the power to transform any “perceived” reality within my mind’s consciousness.
On my childhood farm, we had this path lined with towering spruce trees. The path was not well-worn, so wild grass grew freely. I know I was very young, because I remember the childhood clothes I had on before I reached double digits. I would lay down on that path and stare up to the sky. I still have that scene in my mind’s eye…the tips of spruce trees reaching up to expansive blue skies where birds surfed currents of freedom. The advantage to living so rural is there is pure silence there. What you do hear is nature. And I remember realizing how small I was, but there was a big world out there. That scene reminded me that I will find freedom one day. My own wings.
I didn’t have dreams to be a Ballerina or an Astronaut. I had dreams to just love, accept, support and empower others. I know that’s who I am not only since it lives within my first memories, but also because during my darkest hour, I chose that.
I chose that within some of life’s trickiest times when I could have chosen revenge, insecurity, bitterness, and negativity.
Bring it back to Love.
What does that mean for the everyday?
What makes you feel alive?
What makes you feel most in tune with your spirit side?
WHO makes you feel alive?
What makes you laugh, and feel true happiness?
Where does your passion lie?
For me, I have become very intentional with my time, words, and creating a harmonious, loving, peaceful environment.
I identified my feel-good elements and in my free time (because we all have a 9-5 that carries an environment not always full of awesomeness), I choose those! Not even feel-good…some are feel-amazing.
I find it within my Miracle Morning.
Moving and eating the way my body is designed to work best. With balance; not lack or restriction.
Going for a walk or run outside.
Soak up the sun, feel it on my face. Breath in some air. Take in some nature eye-candy.
Finding beauty within the ordinary and the extrodinary: Photography
Meet new people, because absolutely everyone who crosses your path can teach you something. Both in what you want, who you want to grow to be; and who you don’t want to be. When I meet a closed off/guarded person, I’m curious with genuine care how they came to be that way. I feel empathy for it, because it’s a pretty lonely existence to never trust and go through life denying the connection with others. I refuse to choose that nor do I take it personally if it’s directed my way.
You do You. I do Me.
Most importantly, I choose strong links in my chain. It’s easy to see who those people are. Not only will they stand beside you within your low-vibe days; but they are truly happy for your successes. They want as much happiness for you as they do for themselves. That’s called being secure within yourself.
Find people who remind you not to take yourself or life too seriously. Carve little moments of time out for those people. We are all “busy”. Give me an hour with my girls, I’m energized for days.
It’s cold for spring, but I can turn on my fireplace with a good book, talk to my bestie Darina on the phone for hours laughing about nothing and everything, buy some tulips for my table. I don’t actually have to wait for them to pop out of the snow on my neighbours yard. Turn up the music…whatever makes me feel something. Dance in my kitchen while I cook high-quality foods I know will give me energy for my busy week. Open a window, pull back the drapes, let the sun shine in.
Good Vibes Only.
Fill my home with little mementos that remind me of my goals and values so I’ll never lose my way.
The stack of vintage books from the old Windermere school in Vermilion my Mom gave me: Never stop learning or dull the quest for continued knowledge.
The hand-painted canvas of owls my daughter made me: Freedom and creativity.
Allan Sapp’s painting “Baby is Sleeping”: My roots and my Grandma Perkins
The Buddha photo I took while visiting with soul-food friends: Harmony
The WW bobble head on my mantle that was gifted to me by my Kismet spirit/truth-teller/mini gang: Know your fackin’ worth and embrace your inner power. Own it.
Whatever you choose to do with your time, I wish for you Quality.
Top-Shelf living with passion, love, and Zen Joy.
Life is beautiful and you have the power to create an amazing one.
From my heart to yours,